What
is herpes?
- Herpes is caused by a virus:
the herpes simplex virus (HSV).
- HSV is in a family of viruses
called herpes viruses. This family includes Epstein-Barr virus, the cause
of mono; and varicella zoster, the cause of chicken pox and shingles.
- Although there are several
viruses in the herpes virus family, each are separate viruses and different
from one another.
- There are two types of
herpes simplex; herpes simplex type 1 (HSV-1) and herpes simplex type
2 (HSV-2).
- HSV is a common and usually
mild recurrent skin condition.
- HSV can cause oral herpes
(cold sores or fever blisters on the mouth or facial area) as well as
genital herpes (similar symptoms in the genital region).
- The majority of oral herpes
cases are caused by HSV-1 and the majority of genital herpes cases are
caused by HSV-2; however, both type-1 and type-2 can occur in the genitals,
oral area or both.
How
common is herpes?
- About 50 percent to 80 percent
of the adult population in the United States has oral herpes.
- Most people contract oral
herpes when they are children by receiving a kiss from a friend or relative.
- About one in five adults
in the United States has genital herpes, however as many as 90 percent
are unaware that they have the virus
- Anyone who is sexually active
can contract genital herpes.
How
can I get herpes?
- Any person who is sexually
active can get genital herpes.
- Herpes is transmitted through
direct skin-to-skin contact. This occurs when a contagious area comes
into contact with a mucous membrane, primarily the mouth and genitals.
- Most skin on the body is
too thick for the virus to go through.
- If a person with oral herpes
performs oral sex, it is possible for the partner to get genital herpes.
- If a person with genital
herpes has sex, it is possible for his or her partner to get genital
herpes.
- Herpes can be transmitted
when there are no symptoms present.
- There are several days
throughout the year (called asymptomatic reactivation, asymptomatic
shedding or sub-clinical shedding) when a person can be contagious without
having a symptom.
- There are no documented
cases of a person getting genital herpes from an inanimate object such
as a toilet seat, bathtub or towel. Herpes is a very fragile virus and
does not live long on surfaces.
What
are the symptoms of herpes?
While some people realize that they have genital herpes, many do not.
It is estimated that one in five adults in the United States has genital
herpes, however, as many as 90% are unaware that they have the virus.
This is because many people have very mild symptoms or no symptoms at
all. Because symptoms can vary a great deal, we recommend that an individual
see a health care provider to obtain a culture of the symptom.
When do symptoms appear?
- A person may show symptoms
within days after contracting genital herpes, or it may take weeks,
months or years.
- Some people may have a
severe outbreak within days after contracting the virus.
- Some people may have a
first outbreak so mild that they do not notice it.
- It can be difficult for
people to know when and from whom they may have contracted the virus.
What are the signs or symptoms
of genital herpes?
Outbreaks of genital herpes can vary greatly from person to person. They
can be mild for one individual and severe for another. Symptoms may last
for up to 3 to 4 weeks, but they usually heal within 2 to 12 days. Symptoms
may include the following:
- One or more sores, blisters,
cuts, pimples, bumps or a rash
- Itching, burning or tingling
in the genital area · Aches or pains in the genital area
- Flu-like symptoms (headache,
fever, swollen glands in lymph nodes near groin)
- Painful urination and a
discharge (vaginal or penile) are possible, but uncommon, symptoms for
genital herpes
- Many people have outbreaks
that heal quickly, cause no pain or occur in an unnoticeable spot. People
sometimes mistake herpes outbreaks for:
| - Insect bites |
- Jock itch |
| - Yeast infections |
- Ingrown hair follicles |
| - Abrasions or razor
burn |
- Hemorrhoids |
Where do symptoms of genital
herpes appear?
When a person has genital herpes, the virus lays dormant (sleeps) in the
bundle of nerves at the base of the spine. When the virus reactivates
(wakes up), it travels nerve paths to the surface of the skin, sometimes
causing an outbreak. The nerves in the genitals, upper thighs and buttocks
are connected; therefore, a person can experience outbreaks in any of
these areas. Such areas include:
| - Vagina |
- Vulva |
| - Penis |
- Scrotum
or testicles |
| - Anus |
- Buttocks |
| - Thigh |
|
How often do outbreaks
of genital herpes occur?
- The amount of outbreaks
someone has varies from person to person.
- The average number of outbreaks
per year is four to five.
- The first outbreak may
be the most extreme outbreak a person will have.
- Usually, there are more
outbreaks during the first year.
- Many people find that recurrences
tend to lessen in severity and frequency with time.
- Illness, poor diet, emotional
or physical stress, friction, surgical trauma and steroidal medication
(such as asthma treatment) may trigger a herpes outbreak.
- The frequency of outbreaks
can often be managed through effective stress management, and getting
adequate rest, nutrition and exercise.
How
can I find out if I have herpes?
- If symptoms of genital herpes
appear, they can vary widely from person to person. If a person does
experience visible symptoms, we recommend obtaining a culture test within
the first 48 hours after symptoms appear. Beyond 48 hours, there is
a risk of receiving a false negative test result because symptoms may
have begun to heal and there is not enough of the virus left on the skin to
culture.
- Blood tests can be used
when a person has no visible symptoms but has concerns about having
herpes. Blood tests do not actually detect the virus; instead, they
look for antibodies (the body’s immune response) in the blood.
How
can I reduce my risk of getting herpes?
Any sexually active person may contract genital herpes. Ways to reduce
risk include:
- If someone has a symptom
around the mouth (oral herpes), she or he should not perform oral sex
until all signs have healed.
- If someone has signs or
symptoms around the genital region (genital herpes), he or she should
not have sexual activity until all signs have healed.
- When there are no symptoms
present, using latex condoms for genital-to-genital contact reduces
the risk of transmission.
- One antiviral medication
for herpes, valacyclovir (Valtrex®), has recently been shown to
reduce the risk of herpes transmission. When taken daily by a person
with a history of recurrent genital herpes, valacyclovir can reduce
the risk of transmission to a partner who does not have the virus by
50%. It’s likely that a combination of suppressive valacyclovir
and condoms provides greater protection than either method alone.
- Microbicides/Spermicides
have not been proven to reduce the risk of transmission. If used, they
should be used with a condom, not in place of one.
- Partner communication.
It is important for both partners to become educated about herpes and
to make decisions together about which precautions are best.

What
is the current treatment for herpes?
- Currently, there is no treatment
to cure herpes; however, there is no cure for any virus at this point.
- There are three antiviral
medications (in pill form) approved by the Food and Drug Administration
(FDA) that are available for the treatment of herpes: Zovirax® (acyclovir),
Famvir® (famciclovir) and Valtrex® (valacyclovir).
- Each of these medications
can be used during a recurrence to help speed the healing process of
an outbreak.
- All three drugs are FDA
approved for daily, suppressive therapy to help reduce the frequency
of outbreaks.
- Zovirax is also available
in the form of an ointment, but the medication has been proven to be
much more effective when taken orally.
- Valtrex, when taken daily
(suppressive therapy) by a person with recurrent genital herpes, can
reduce the risk of transmission to a partner.
- According to the manufacturers,
the most common short-term side effects reported were nausea and headaches.
These medications have never been noted to cause any long-term side
effects.
- Using medication to treat
genital herpes is not required. However, if a person would like to use
an antiviral medication, speaking with a health care provider can help determine
which treatment may be right for them.
- You can speak to your doctor
about the proper medications for you.
- Over-the-counter creams
and/or ointments are not recommended for genital herpes.

Talking
to a partner about herpes
What
if a Partner has Herpes?
In a new relationship there
is always risk. Usually this risk is emotional. When a partner has herpes,
there is additional risk that you could get it, too. You may have concerns
about risking infection for a relationship that may not last. You’ll
want to understand how to lower the risk for infection and ways to talk
with your partner. Remember, if you have been sexually active you may
already have been at risk for herpes. You may have it and not know it.
Because herpes can be spread without symptoms (asymptomatic shedding)
it can be hard to know when a person became infected and who infected
them. In fact, if you and your partner have had sex, it’s possible
your partner got herpes from you.
Get tested and know the medical
treatments available for your partner.
In an intimate, sexual relationship
with a person who has herpes, the risk of contracting the infection will
never be zero. Some couples have sexual relationships for years without
transmitting herpes just by avoiding sexual contact during outbreaks,
using condoms regularly and using suppressive antiviral therapy to reduce
outbreaks. Couples deal successfully with herpes all the time. For many,
it is a minor inconvenience. Since herpes does not pose a serious health
risk, some couples choose not to use condoms in a long-term relationship.
If you’re not sure about the relationship or you’re uncomfortable
with the risk, consider delaying intimacy for a while. Get to know your
partner better and give yourself time. Remember, all relationships face
challenges, most far tougher than herpes. Good relationships stand or
fall on far more important issues--including communication, respect and
trust.
Social
and Emotional Impact of Herpes
For most people, the social
and emotional impact of herpes is greater than the physical distress,
at least in the beginning. Society tends to have a judgmental attitude
about sexually transmitted diseases. Many people feel embarrassed or isolated
after they are diagnosed. With time, accurate information and support,
most people put herpes in perspective. A diagnosis of herpes can challenge
our personal view of sexuality and health. Many people can be uncomfortable
talking about it. Once you or a partner has more facts and information,
you may find your views changing.
Why
Tell a Partner?
Some people don’t tell,
or don’t tell every partner. Some don’t tell until after they’ve
had sex. It’s important that herpes does not become a secret--for
many reasons.
Once you and your partner know
the facts, you may find your views changing.
- Telling your partner allows
this person to make an informed choice. When you tell, you are showing
respect and concern for his or her well being. Your honesty may build
intimacy and trust.
- Telling your partner helps
prevent transmitting herpes. If you keep herpes a secret, you might
invent lies and half-truths to postpone sex during outbreaks. And, you
give your partner a shared stake in making decisions together about
how to reduce risk.
- Telling your partner can
begin an important discussion about sexual health. Herpes is one of
over 20 sexually transmitted infections. Others have more serious health
consequences. Your honesty encourages your partner to share sexual history
and health information with you.
- Telling your partner can
prevent future misunderstandings or threat of legal action.
How
to Tell a Partner
Know the Facts
First, have you come to terms
yourself with having herpes? If you haven’t, then it’s unrealistic
to expect another person to understand. How well informed are you? Do
you know the basic steps to reduce the risk to your partner? Do you know
the facts about herpes? You want to feel confident and knowledgeable before
you can explain the infection to someone else. Have educational materials
on-hand for your partner to read. Be prepared to answer questions. If
you don’t know the answer to a question that isn't already answered
on this site, find out here.
When
to Tell a Partner
This can be a sensitive topic
and knowing when to raise it is important. It’s best to let the
friendship develop first, but it’s best not to wait until after
you’ve become sexually intimate. Then, the issue can become tangled
in feelings of anger and mistrust. Remember, telling a partner about herpes
is only a small part of relationship building. This disclosure can enhance
your honesty and openness, and demonstrate your ability to have and maintain
an intimate relationship.
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Try role-playing with a
trusted friend or relative. Practice saying the words out loud.
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Choose a neutral setting
during a time when you won’t be distracted or interrupted. Be
natural.
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Speak with confidence. You
are not lecturing or confessing. You’re sharing personal information.
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Remain calm. If you are
upset, a partner might think it’s worse than it is. Remember your
delivery and body language becomes your message, too.
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Expect your partner to be
accepting and supportive. You’re doing the best thing for both
of you. People tend to behave as you expect them to.
A Simple
Message: How to Start and What to Say
Words can be clumsy and awkward.
Choose your own words and your own way of telling a partner. You’ll
find the way that’s most comfortable for you.
- "I want to talk with
you about something that’s important to me. Have you ever had
a cold sore or fever blister? A type of virus causes cold sores and
fever blisters. I have this virus. Only, instead of getting the sores
near my mouth, I get them in my genital area."
- "I really feel I can
trust you and I want to tell you something very personal. Last year,
I found out I have genital herpes. It’s not as serious as it sounds.
Can I tell you about it?"
- "I really like you
and enjoy being with you, and I want to get closer to you. Let’s
talk about safer sex.
How
Will a Partner React?
Some may overreact. Some won’t
bat an eye. Since many people have genital herpes or have heard about
it, many people won’t be shocked or surprised. Whatever happens,
try to be flexible. Give your partner time to respond, think about what
you’ve said and absorb the information. Remember when you first
found out? It took you time to adjust, too.
You don’t have to be
overly concerned about protecting a partner’s feelings. And, you
may want to reconsider a relationship where you have to do all the emotional
work. A safer sex discussion might help you find out if this partner is
a good candidate for your love and attention.
A few people are going to react
negatively. It won’t matter what you say or how you say it. Remember,
these people are the exception not the rule. If a partner decides not
to pursue a relationship with you because you have herpes, it is best
to know this now. There are many people who will be attracted to you for
who you are--with or without herpes.
Most people react well. They
appreciate your approach, honesty and maturity in addressing an important
health issue. Remember to put herpes into perspective: it is an annoying,
recurrent skin condition that is treatable and manageable--no more, no
less.

Herpes
and pregnancy
Did you know:
- It is rare for infants
to contract herpes.
- Twenty percent to 25 percent
of pregnant women have genital herpes.
- Less than 0.1 percent of
babies contract genital herpes.
- A mother helps the baby
by passing her antibodies to the infant during pregnancy.
- Women who acquire genital
herpes before becoming pregnant have a low risk of passing the virus
to their baby.
- A woman who contracts genital
herpes during the third trimester of pregnancy is at a higher risk of
passing herpes to the baby because she has not had time to build up
antibodies to the virus.
- Most mothers with genital
herpes have normal vaginal deliveries.
- The doctor should do a
thorough visual exam at the onset of labor.
- If a woman has symptoms
at the time of delivery, a Caesarean section is recommended.
- If an infant does contract
herpes during delivery, the symptoms tend to show within two to three
weeks after birth.
- Herpes can be life threatening
to an infant.
- Medication may help prevent
or reduce the lasting damage to an infant if treated early.
- After birth, herpes can
be passed to a baby by receiving a kiss from someone with a cold sore
on the mouth (oral herpes).
If You're Pregnant and You
Have Herpes:
- Talk with your doctor or
health care provider.
- Be examined at labor to
see if there are any symptoms.
- Notify the doctor if you
think you have symptoms during labor.
If You're Pregnant and Your
Partner Has Herpes:
- It is important to avoid
contracting herpes during pregnancy.
- Using condoms for sexual
activity and not having sex while symptoms are present will reduce the
risk of transmission.
Quick
Facts About herpes:
- The surest way to prevent
the spread of genital herpes is to avoid sex during an active outbreak.
- Using condoms between outbreaks
reduces the risk of transmission.
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Most couples decide together
how to reduce the risk.
More
Information on herpes and other STD's
For additional questions about this or any other STD's and other diseases,
CDC (Centers for Disease Control) provides several toll-free hotlines
for public use. The hotlines provide referrals and more answers to your
questions. Be sure to request free printed information when you call the
hotlines.
- CDC
National STD and AIDS Hotlines:
1-800-342-2437 or 1-800-227-8922. The hotlines are open 24
hours a day, seven days a week. For Spanish call 1-800-344-7432, 8:00
a.m. to 2:00 a.m. eastern standard time, seven days a week. For the deaf and
hard-of-hearing call 1-800-243-7889, 10:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. eastern standard time, Monday through Friday.
- CDC
National Immunization Information Hotline:
English 1-800-232-2522 Spanish 1-800-232-0233 8 a.m. to 11
p.m. eastern standard time. For the deaf and
hard-of-hearing call 1-800-243-7889.
Monday through Friday 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. eastern standard time.
- CDC
Public Response Hotline (CPR):
English 1-888-246-2675 span 1-888-246-2857 Monday through Friday
8 a.m. to 11 p.m. eastern standard time 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Saturday and Sunday.
For the deaf and
hard-of-hearing 1-866-874-2646 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. eastern standard time Monday through Friday.

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